Dear Future Jimmy,
I’m not going to lie, things are about to get tough, but I want you to come back to this whenever you’re feeling down or losing faith in yourself. Remember how hard you worked on yourself this past year and how much you’ve accomplished. You inspired lots of people and made lots of friends but most importantly, you are you. You’re no one else but you and it’s an amazing thing. People see it and they want to be a part of that, as much as you want to be a part of them. Please for the love of all that is holy, love yourself still and keep realizing that you’ve exceeded your own expectations. In the next year keep it together, people have your back, and keep being you. I’d kick your ass is you go back into not liking yourself because you’re fucking awesome. Not only that but you’re humble, kind hearted, and loving person. Please REMEMBER THIS. Come back to it whenever you need it.
Cause I know it’s going to happen…
you will get hurt, frustrated, and stressed but Remember who you are.
PS: I’m here for ya man.
"That’s why TODAY, the time we have now is important.”
“I don’t want the future. I want the present to stand still. I just want to stay here with you…”
“No matter what happens, even if you become the world’s enemy, I’ll be your knight.”
I already wrote about Squall and Rinoa before, but I bring them up now because of what’s been happening in my life. I remember at one of my low points, I was upset. I got rejected a lot and I was so confused, I didn’t know what I was doing wrong. There were girls rejecting based on who I am and it hurt, but my friend lifted me up and said, “Maybe all of this is happening because its building up to something better.”
I didn’t believe it at first, I continued to believed that it was always my fault for not living up to the girl’s reputation…I can’t believe that was my mindset. There was a point I didn’t like myself, I hated my personality, and how nice I was. People would give me advice on how to get a girl but I would never follow it, because there were all “pick-up artist” advice. “How to mind manipulate a girl into liking you.”
I continued to be myself and hating it, my self-esteem went down the shitter. I always wished I was someone else…and then this past year is when I got out of this mind set.
I grew tired of being depressed and being lazy so I began working on myself. I started working out and dieting so I can establish a healthy life style. I worked on my writing so I can keep up with my passion. Once I started working on myself that I was happy. I was me and I liked it. I also learned better advice on women from Cracked, then from any other pick up artist. It’s the same advice but “be yourself” is the best thing anyone can tell you.
Then I met someone this past month and she saw that, she saw how happy I was and wanted to be part of it, so I let her in. It wasn’t until then that being myself never felt this good, and it made me realized something. Yes, there are people who will reject you based on your personality, but if they reject you because of it, then why be with them? I realized your personality is cutting through all the bullshit and setting it up for that right person to see.
Hear me out, there are asshole guys who view woman as an object, a game if you will. They use rules to acquire the women and when they do they disregard them and continue to use it on the next girl. The people that use that advice get the girl but there building a fake persona.If they end up going into a relationship she will eventually find out the true person and when they do, it ends…unless there’s a person who actually liked the real person more than their fake persona, then kudos, I guess. But that’s the thing, they objectify women and make them object you win and I’ll never forget the advice I read from John Cheese of Cracked.com
“This is the problem with this whole line of thinking. The guys who adopt it are treating the entire process like a game, like women are competition. They’re acting as if she’s the end boss of a video game and they have to figure out the exact pattern of attack in order to make her submit in defeat. What those guys don’t realize is that in reality she’s a potential co-op player whom you need in order to defeat the real boss. And every woman plays differently. You have to find the one who complements your play style or the whole thing ends up being a giant clusterfuck. Basically a World of Warcraft raid.”
Read more: http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-regular-guys-ruin-their-first-impression-with-women/#ixzz2mLMszvsn
So when be yourself, you get someone who is quality, but if you want to be that douche, go ahead and get your quantity. I prefer quality over quantity, anyway.
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